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Saying how you feel

The everyday emotions, and two words for tired that are not interchangeable.

a2Lesson 29 of 345 min

By the end of this lesson

  • Say how you feel in the register people actually use
  • Distinguish physical tiredness from being fed up

The list

senang ‘happy’
sedih ‘sad’
marah ‘angry’
takut ‘afraid’
kesal ‘annoyed’
bosan ‘bored’
bingung ‘confused’
kaget ‘startled’
lega ‘relieved’

No verb needed, as with any adjective.

Saya senang. ‘I’m happy.’
Capek banget. ‘Really tired.’

Two tireds

Capek is physically tired. Bosan is tired of something, bored, fed up.

Capek kerja. ‘Worn out from work.’
Bosan di rumah. ‘Fed up of being at home.’

English says “tired of” for the second and English speakers reach for capek, which says their body is tired rather than their patience.

Bingung

Bingung covers confused, at a loss, and unable to decide. It is used far more than the English “confused”, which sounds like an admission of failure.

Saya bingung mau makan apa. ‘I can’t decide what to eat.’

Nobody is embarrassed to say it.

Expressing it with feelings

Perasaan saya… ‘I feel that…’
Rasanya ‘It feels like…’

Rasa means both taste and feeling, so rasanya enak is ‘it tastes good’ and rasanya aneh can be either ‘it tastes odd’ or ‘it feels odd’.

The intensifiers

banget after the adjective, casual and everywhere
sekali after the adjective, neutral
sangat before it, formal

Senang banget! ‘So happy!’

What you’ll actually hear

Indonesians tend to understate negative feelings with strangers and overstate positive ones with friends. Biasa saja ‘just ordinary’ from the A1 greetings lesson often covers a bad day.

What the book says: Saya merasa sangat lelah hari ini.
What you’ll hear: Capek banget hari ini.

Words from this lesson

senanghappy, pleased
capektiredPhysically. Lelah is the formal form.
bosanbored, fed up
kesalannoyed
kagetstartled, shocked